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Monday, February 25, 2013

Cancer Sucks and we Miss You So Much!!!

Hi Baby..hope your having a wonderful time in heaven and that your surrounded by your friends and that your happy..We all Miss You So much. Kyra has been sleeping in mommy's bed ever since they took your hospital bed because she doesnt want to sleep alone in any other bed..it has been 10 days since your gone and we all keep expecting to hear your voice or see you walk into a room...I still wake up every 2hrs all night long IF i sleep at all because i hear your voice calling to me for medicine,I am glad your not in pain anymore but also angry that your not in my arms..The one thing i cannot stand and im about to scream if one more person says it to me is SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE NOW grrr how can they say that, there is no better place for you then in my arms and baby i want you back so bad that sometimes i cant breathe from the pain of it...But i have my Fake smile on and im telling everyone im ok because thats what they want to hear...nobody wants to hear how sad i am or that i miss you so bad i want to lay down and die with you but i cant because your sister needs me and she needs me to be as strong for her as i always was for you...I wish i knew her as well as i know you..i feel like Kyra and i are strangers...yes we live in the same house but i dont really know her as well because she was always with Nana and i was always with you because you were so sick...so now Kyra and i are getting to know each other again.and we are working on not getting mad at each other over silly things because we are both so angry over missing you but so far we are doing great mostly because Kyra is a very good kid and she loves everyone which she learned from her big sister...her capacity to love is just as big and just as beautiful as yours was.Thank You for that baby,for helping your sister be the beautiful person she is today...Your brother Bret and His Fiance Lizz got Kyra a hello kitty from build a bear and they put your voice recording in it, the one where you tell her you love her and she is your best sister...everytime she squeezes that and i hear your voice it hurts so bad because i know i'll never hear your voice in person again But in another way its the perfect gift because once the pain isnt so raw,the fact that we can hear your voice everytime kyra hugs her hello kitty is a wonderful gift.Everywhere i turn there are pieces of you, i opened the freezer to see if there was anything to make for dinner tonight and your alfredo pasta fell out at me,it was like you were telling me you were hungry...all i could do was cry and put it back and then go lay down and cry...the littlest things take away my ability to function like a normal human being...I can be fine all day, I can go on TV and talk about you and stand on stage at a fundraiser to help raise awareness BUT let me look at a corndog or a sausage dog which you loved and i fall down into a puddle...I havent been able to touch a candy bar since the morning after you died and i found the bite size twix bar in my hand under your pillow..i know that was something you sent me but i cant bring myself to eat the candy bars in our room because they were yours...even kyra doesnt want them because she says they were Audri's mommy...Same with your pasta nobody will touch it because it was YOURS and we all feel like if we leave it there you will come back for it!!!!! Again not a rational thought but right now there arent many rational thoughts in this house except the one that we are all think...WE MISS YOU BABY AND WISH YOU WERE HERE!!!!!!!!!!

7 comments:

  1. So sorry for your loss, receive a big hug and praying for you all... <3

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  2. No words can describe your loss Or the pain i feel for you....but know this..if there is ANYTHING i can do for you guys please dont hisatate to ask...i know what your going through....and i truly want to help... much love to you and your family...shes gone but NEVER forgotten

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  3. angela we all feel the same way, her alfredo sauce has a permanent place in my fridge. i honestly want you to feel better, but i dont expect you to tell me that you do,i want to hear exactly how you feel and scream with me WHY?? and possibly smash things and vent all the anger although there isnt a vent big enough to push it all through a little release is better then none. i love you angela with giant hugs and kisses

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  4. You describe the feelings of loss..I could not put into words. God love u for posting. I will never get tried of hearing about beautiful audrianna. And how the family is doing. Your posts a tribute to audrianna and a testament of love .......I remember having to learn to fry an egg all over again after. My daughter Lori passed away. Your story of the alfredo falling out of the freezer and the candy...so true. I cherish the things I have found in the house after too...aren't they found in the most obvious places but seem to catch us by surprise. I want to just tell you my heart is with you...my thoughts pure as I cry and hurt for you. As so many here do. Xoxoxo

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